Courage. It’s an often a characteristic we admire and aspire to be. We often love to root for the underdog who overcomes fear and shows courage. Is the quality that heroes are celebrated for, and a virtue we often hope to embody in our own lives. Courage is a crucial, often understated role in our everyday lives—acting as a cornerstone of resiliency.
Courage Defined
Courage is defined as the mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty.
Courage is our ability to confront and overcome personal fears, challenges, or obstacles, often in the face of uncertainty, risk, or adversity. Courage is not the absence of fear but the determination to act despite it.
Courage can look like taking the moral high road, emotional resilience, showing grit, physical bravery, or the willingness to take risks. Sometimes we demonstrate courage for the greater good or for our own personal growth or survival.
How do you demonstrate courage?
Resiliency Refresher
Resiliency is the ability to adapt and thrive despite challenges, bounce back from adversity and/or maintain a sense of hope and purpose through what life throws at us. We’re resilient when we’re able to navigate life’s storms while dealing with the stress, challenge and/or pain while we show a level of grace and strength while doing so. Think of a spring that springs back despite being under stress.
The Connection Between Courage and Resiliency
1 Facing Fear Head-On
At the heart of resiliency lies the ability to face fear head-on. Fear of failure, fear of the unknown, and fear of change can paralyze us, keeping us stuck in situations that are detrimental to our growth and well-being. Courage empowers us to confront these fears, to take that first step into the unknown, and to trust that we can handle whatever comes our way.
2 Embracing Vulnerability
Courage and vulnerability are intrinsically linked. To be resilient, we must be willing to acknowledge our vulnerabilities and accept that it's okay not to have all the answers or to feel strong all the time. Courage allows us to open up, seek help, and connect with others, which is essential for building a support system that can help us through tough times.
3 Perseverance Through Adversity
Resiliency often requires perseverance, and perseverance is fueled by courage. When faced with setbacks and obstacles, it takes courage to keep going, to push through the pain and frustration, and to maintain hope and determination. This kind of courage is not about grand gestures but about the quiet, persistent effort to keep moving forward, even when the path is steep and rocky.
4 Adaptability and Flexibility
The ability to adapt to changing circumstances is a key component of resiliency. Courage helps us let go of rigid expectations and be open to new possibilities. We are able to see different solutions to our problems. It allows us to experiment, take risks, and embrace change as an opportunity for growth rather than a threat.
5 Maintaining Optimism
Resiliency is closely tied to a positive outlook and the ability to maintain hope and optimism even in the face of adversity. Courage helps us find and hold onto that silver lining, to believe in a better future, and to inspire others with our hopeful perspective. It’s about having the bravery to look beyond the immediate difficulties and to trust in the possibility of better days ahead.
Courage is not just the stuff of epic tales and heroic actions, it’s the quiet, resilient force within us that empowers us to face life's challenges with strength and grace.
I encourage you to cultivate your courage! It will enhance your ability to bounce back from adversity, adapt to change, and maintain a hopeful and positive outlook
Courage is an important resiliency skill that can be cultivated —one that enables us to navigate the complexities of life with resilience and fortitude. The next blog we will dig into how to build courage and improve our resiliency.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and perspective on courage and resiliency.
- What resonates with you?
- What fear might you want to face?
- How might you be courageous and resilient in facing that fear?
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Teresa – Facing my fears with resilience!
Teresa Q. Bitner, M.Ed., PMP, PCC - Resiliency, Change and Loss Coach
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