Find a spot to contemplate and or journal about your wants, needs, looking ahead and preparing for the new year. Enjoy the reflection prompts as you reflect to move forward.
Wants
Take your time with this exercise and pause and answer fully each question.
- What do I want? – pause and reflect/write for a few moments
- What do I really want? pause and reflect/write for a few moments
- What do I really really want? pause and reflect/write for a few moments
- What do I want more than anything? pause and reflect/write for a few moments
Needs
- What do I need?
- What do I desperately need soon?
- How might I get my needs met?
Looking Ahead
- What am I looking forward to?
- How do I want to be in 3 months?
- What is most exciting about the next year?
- How do I want to be in 6 months?
- What do I want to have accomplished, experienced or felt this time next year?
One Thing
- What one thing do I want to be different next year that I have control over making happen?
Prepare
- How can I prepare for the next year?
- What do I want to leave behind?
- What do I want to take with me?
- How might I put a plan in place for my year?
Here’s to reflecting and moving forward with grace, ease and peace into the new year. May you bring what you want that works for you forward and leave what doesn’t work for you behind. See bonus burning exercise below for a way to do this.
Next, I’ll be writing about intentions and setting a focus for the year with intention.
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Teresa – Taking time mindfully prepare and plan for 2024!
Teresa Q. Bitner, M.Ed., PMP, PCC - Resiliency, Change and Loss Coach
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Bonus – Burning Ritual
Many great traditions have a burning ritual at the end of the year. The idea is that you leave behind what you don’t want to hold on to or bring into the new year.
A simple version is to write these down on small pieces of paper. Then in a safe place light the fire in a fire pit, bowl, something fire proof and safe. Place the papers into the fire. Next watch them burn allowing yourself to feel whatever arises. Offer a word of release, I’m letting go of …, I’m letting go of…, I am open to… I am healed, blessed and at peace is a nice way to end. Lastly, extinguish the fire safely. If you like when ashes are cooled you can blow them, scatter or dispose them safely away from you and your dwelling.
Now you’re ready to move into the new year with your wants, needs and desires for the new year. Take a moment to capture those thoughts.
Here's to leaving what doesn't serve you behind and taking forward what does!!